I guess it’s the richness and the vintage flair ecru brings to an event that so fascinates me.

Hope you enjoyed the ecru treat!  Happy planning!

There are so many ways to put your personal stamp on your wedding – colors, flowers, food (and favors, of course).  One of the most elegant and personal ways, though, seems to have fallen out of vogue.  Sophisticated computer programs and high quality printers have replaced the truly personal elegance of calligraphy.  Yes, that ancient art of  “pretty writing.”  Not many people do it anymore.  Lord knows I’ve about forgotten how to hand-write altogether!  Fortunately I’ve had the pleasure of meeting Jennifer, proud proprietress of Calligraphy by Jennifer.  She’s been a Fan on our Facebook page for a while, and I’ve really enjoyed seeing her work, so I thought I’d share!

Jennifer had an early interest in calligraphy – really early.  “When I was younger, my friends and teachers always complimented me on my good penmanship, and I really loved writing and doodling around.  I did a calligraphy project for the Beta Club in middle school, but it wasn’t until I got married that I fell back in love with calligraphy, after having my own invitations hand lettered.  So with a lot of practice and a few classes, I started my calligraphy business in 2005.  Each year I feel I’ve improved my skill, and I strive to develop more fonts and services for my clients.  I am very passionate about what I do, and I feel so grateful to work with so many brides and clients nationwide.  I wouldn’t change it for the world!”

Jennifer’s website has exposed her calligraphy talent to a nationwide audience – she can now boast at least one client in every state!  With that kind of exposure, I had to ask – “What’s the most unusual request you’ve ever had?”   “I had a client once ask me to write his daughter’s name in calligraphy.  I found out he later took it to a tattoo artist and had it tattooed on his back!  He even sent me pictures after it was finished!”

With four years’ experience under her petite belt, Jennifer is happy to provide a little advice to brides-to-be.  “I strongly recommend brides book calligraphers in advance, like they would any vendor, especially in the prime wedding season (Spring and Summer).  I think many brides don’t realize calligraphers book up far in advance.  I recommend that once they start to order invitations, go ahead and book then.  It is never too early to reserve a good calligrapher, and this will also help the bride-to-be avoid any rush fees by waiting until the last minute. ”

When asked if she wanted to add anything else to our little tete-a-tete, I was delighted to hear Jennifer respond,  “I just want to add how much I LOVE my job!  I have really enjoyed working with clients nationwide and making each one of their weddings special with the added touch of calligraphy!  Calligraphy options are truly endless, and I think that is what I love most about my job.  I have connected with so many people in the industry, and I love every aspect of the wedding business!”

See more of Jennifer’s handiwork at her website, and be sure to check out her Etiquette section as well.  Lots of good tips for brides-to-be!

A little background about Miss Taylor, the bride-to-be.  Taylor and Zach (Lynsey’s brother) met through mutual friends at a dinner in 2007.  They hit it off pretty quickly, once they realized they’d both attended the same college in Salisbury, NC, and had actually met before through another mutual friend (friends can be so handy!).  Talk about kismet!  Two years and one proposal later, Lynsey’s enjoying the parties leading up to the December wedding.

This was an “Around the House” shower, with each guest assigned a particular room .  Here’s a pic of the invitation, just the cutest idea!  This is an actual photograph of Taylor and Zach holding hands, and you can see her engagement ring – love it!

The hostesses focused on Taylor’s wedding colors of wine and ivory, and the centerpiece of all the fun was the fabulous food!

Bruschetta, meatballs, cheese and crackers, quiches, 7 layer Mexican dip, fruit, sandwich tray, pinwheels, Buffalo chicken dip, oh-so-yum and then there’s the dessert table – super-wow!

Games? They played three – how fun!

• The Safety Pin Game – this one always gets the conversation started.  The “special words” were “Bride”, “Groom” and “Wedding”.
• Bridal Bingo – this games a lot of fun, and you can find do-it-yourself instructions here
• Did You Know? – a brain teaser game where each guest gets a pad and a pencil, and the hostess asks questions about the bride.  The one with the most correct answer wins – and this game can get pretty funny!

Prizes for the games?  Cute little scented pillar candles – something everybody loves!

One more clever idea for you -  each guest was given a card on which to write a personal message to the bride and groom.  Each author designated whether the message was to be opened and read at the wedding, on the honeymoon or on the 1^st anniversary.  The messages were then sorted and nicely sealed away until their designated “reveal”.  How personal and special is that?

According to Lynsey – Taylor received some wonderful gifts for her new life with Zach, but the memories of the friends and the fun were the very best part.

Each special guest was thanked with not one but TWO Kate Aspen favors!    Lynsey chose the  Love Beyond Measure  spoons in the exclusive Kate Aspen personality box that matched Taylor’s lovely wine wedding color.  Another clever hostess put her own spin on presentation (and we love it) for the Fall in Love coasters.  Lucky guests!

Congratulations again Taylor! We look forward to the details from your Bachelorette party in Charlotte!

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“She’s getting married!  We have to  give her The Best Shower Ever!”

Here are five different wedding showers for your Shower Think Tank!

Sip and Paint – Seems there’s one on every corner these days, usually in a tony little shopping strip, where you can paint on canvas or pottery or even on glassware – and the owner sets the mood for fun!  Check out the crafts section of the Yellow Pages to find one.  They are happy to accommodate bridal showers – you sip, paint, open gifts and have a ball! Tip:  Paint your own invitations – pick up blank craft invitations at Michaels and Hobby Lobby.

Favor Suggestion

Monogrammed Koozie!

Honey-Do - Oh, go ahead – include the guys. A “Honey-Do” shower is a cute take on a Hardware Shower.  Be sure your couple is registered at hardware stores, like Home Depot.  Look for clever “tool” invitations to set the mood.  A backyard barbecue is always good for a “Honey-Do”.

Favor Suggestion

Hot off The Grill!

Recipe – I love this shower!  Buy some really cute recipe cards and include them with the invitation.  Or put two in the envelope and make one the invitation!  Instruct your guests to write out a recipe on the card, then make their gift something that goes along with the recipe – like a favorite salad, coupled with a salad bowl and tongs! Tip:  A good game for this shower – The Spice Guessing Game.  Fill small bowls with different spices.  Give everyone paper and pencil, pass around the spices, and let everyone guess what they are.

Favor Suggestion

Recipe for Love!

Sushi - Depending on where you live, you can do this one in-house from a take-out menu, or go to the Sushi Bar – they’d love to accommodate your group!  Use asian-themed invitations and do it up right!

Favor Suggestion

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Double Happiness Bottle Stopper!

Zoo – You’re never to old to enjoy the zoo (or a local museum works just as well).  Call your local zoo to get ideas – they are always hosting parties.  Use a zoo-themed invitation then go enjoy the lions and the tigers!

Favor Suggestion

Imperial Elephant Tea Light Holder!

Happy Planning!

If you’ve been reading along for the past few weeks, then you’ve noticed a few posts about the symbolism of  flowers.  Sure, when you put your wedding bouquet together, color is going to play a big part in your decision.  But what about a little sweet symbolism tucked in alongside your color-punch?  And roses?  Well, they have a language of their own.

We already know that red roses speak of love, pure and simple.  Did you know that the white rose is the traditional wedding flower?  The white rose carries a message of purity, innocence and unity, making it the perfect bloom for a wedding bouquet.

Pink roses are the coquettes of the rose family.  Standing for grace, elegance, sweetness and poetic romance in general, different pink hues carry additional meaning.  The lighter shades convey gentleness and admiration, while the deeper shades convey gratitude and appreciation.

No, silly.  The yellow rose does not just stand for Texas!  They’re actually native to the Middle East, and throughout the centuries they’ve been associated with the sun.  Today they convey joy and friendship.

Do I have a personal favorite?  I love them all, but the peachy-pink Sonia rose is my fave!

What’s yours?  Leave a comment, please!  I love to hear your thoughts.

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]]> http://blog.kateaspen.com/?feed=rss2&p=1687 0 http://blog.kateaspen.com/?p=1673 http://blog.kateaspen.com/?p=1673#comments Thu, 29 Oct 2009 11:26:38 +0000 admin http://blog.kateaspen.com/?p=1673 Whoa!  If you’re looking for a wedding planner, Sasha is the tops!  Style, panache, and a WOW-factor that is over the top, just look at her website!  Click the pic below to travel into a treasure trove of wedding ideas …

Enjoy!

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I had so much fun pulling these together for you.  I hope you find inspiration here.  I know they’ll make you hungry for cake!

Favors at a baby shower are a nice way to say thank you, but did you know that favors also make great prizes for baby shower games?

Such cuteness factor!  I hope you enjoyed!

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Burgundy, claret, merlot – whatever you want to call it, they’re all the rich colors  of red wines – which are really hot this time of year!

Our new friend, Lynsey up in North Carolina is amazing – she just got married herself, and is busy planning a bridal shower and a bachelorette party for her brother’s fiance, Taylor.  Yes!  She’s using our favors for both, and she’s generously agreed to share the details with all of you later so stay tuned!

Taylor’s wedding colors are wine and ivory – which is what set my mind on this lovely shade.  Look what I came up with!

Yummy colors!

Oh!  And here’s a picture of the new Mrs. Lynsey at her very recent wedding – isn’t she a doll?

I’m looking forward to all the details of Lynsey’s plans for Miss Taylor!

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